Love, Every Day

February has a way of inviting us to talk about love. Valentine’s Day brings hearts and flowers and sweet gestures, but at August Table, we like to think about love a little more broadly and a little more quietly.

Love shows up in so many forms. In how we care for our families and friends. In small moments of kindness with strangers we pass on the street or meet in a store. And just as importantly, in how we care for ourselves.

The world moves fast. The noise can be constant. Choosing to slow down, to focus on one thing at a time that brings you joy, can be one of the most meaningful acts of self love there is. Reading a book without rushing. Sketching or painting for no reason other than pleasure. Enjoying a quiet cup of tea. Taking a walk outside and noticing the season you’re in.

As we celebrate love this month, we also want to pause and say thank you. We are deeply grateful for this community. For everyone who follows along, gathers around their own tables, cooks our recipes, sets their homes with intention, and supports what we create. August Table exists because of you, and we don’t take that for granted.

For this week’s Featured Table, I’m sharing an old favorite. A lemon cake layered with sour cherry jam and finished with a soft pink sour cherry lemon buttercream. It’s bright and comforting at the same time. A cake that feels celebratory but unfussy, perfect for sharing with people you love or baking simply because it makes you happy.

Lemon Cake with Sour Cherry Buttercream

Ingredients

Cake

  • 3 cups sifted all purpose flour
  • 2 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1 cup unsalted butter, room temperature
  • 1 3/4 cups granulated sugar
  • 3 large eggs
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
  • 1 cup whole milk
  • 1 heaping tablespoon lemon zest
  • 1/3 cup fresh lemon juice

For Assembly

  • Sour cherry jam for layering

Sour Cherry Lemon Buttercream

  • 1 cup unsalted butter, softened
  • 8 oz cream cheese, room temperature
  • 4 1/2 cups confectioners’ sugar
  • 2 tablespoons lemon juice
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • Pinch of salt, to taste
  • 3 tablespoons sour cherry jam, plus more if desired

Instructions

Preheat the oven to 350°F. Grease three 8 inch cake pans (for these photos I used just two 9 inch cake pans) and line the bottoms with parchment paper. Grease the parchment and set aside.

In a medium bowl, whisk together the flour, baking powder, and salt. Set aside.

Using a stand mixer or handheld mixer, beat the butter and sugar on high speed until light and creamy. Scrape down the sides of the bowl and add the eggs one at a time, mixing well between each addition. Add the vanilla.

With the mixer on low speed, add the dry ingredients just until combined. Add the milk, lemon zest, and lemon juice and mix until smooth.

Divide the batter evenly between the prepared pans. Bake for 21 to 26 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Let the cakes cool completely on a wire rack before assembling.

To make the frosting, beat the butter on medium speed until creamy. Add the cream cheese and beat until smooth. Add the confectioners’ sugar, lemon juice, vanilla, sour cherry jam, and a pinch of salt. Beat until light and fluffy. Add more sour cherry jam if you’d like a deeper pink color or stronger flavor.

To assemble, place one cake layer on a serving plate. Spread a layer of sour cherry jam directly onto the cake, then top with buttercream. Repeat with the second layer. Place the final layer on top and frost the entire cake. Finish with an extra spoonful of sour cherry jam in the center if desired.


Whether you bake this cake for Valentine’s Day, for someone you love, or simply for yourself, I hope it reminds you to slow down and savor the sweetness that already exists in your days.

With gratitude and love,
Carrie

Carrie Allen – Connections…

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Today I have spent the better part of the day reflecting, reflecting on my family, my friends, my unconditional love for my children, my deep love for my husband (my soul mate and best friend), reflecting on nature, relationships, on stillness… on quiet…. and on connections.

As I slowed my mind down, attempting to transcend the clutter of my racing thoughts, I realized how beautiful the friendships I have are, and how we all must disconnect in order to fully connect with others.  Disconnect the cell phones, the emails, the screens and all the other daily inputs consuming our focus and thoughts.

Today I stood outside in the wilderness of Vermont, alone, and listened to the stillness.  At first I only heard quiet…but as my mind adjusted to this slower rhythm I started to hear the cadence and patter of the snow falling off the trees from last night’s dusting, the rustle of leaves in the soft breeze, a far off call of a bird.  I took many deep breaths and filled my lungs with the cold, crisp air and closed my eyes. I felt joy in being alive.

Life goes by in the blink of an eye.  Our busy lives and full schedules make it slip by even faster.  It’s too short to not slow down and find connections.  Connect with nature. Connect with your children. Connect with your family.  Connect as a family.  There is a difference there.

Connect with yourself. Think about what makes you happy.  What fills you with excitement and passion. What do you like?  Spend less time worrying and more time being grateful for those who love you and all of life’s goodness.  Look at what is right in front of you with fresh eyes as if you are seeing them for the first time.

So again…get off the devices.  Slow down and look your children, friends, loved ones in the eye and listen.  Ask them how their day was and really listen.  Nothing is more important and precious in life than loving and being loved.  Without connections life is hollow, lonely and empty.  Don’t waste what you have.  Choose to be happy, to be at peace.  If you look for the good, you’ll find it.

 

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Carrie Allen created this site as a way for people to share stories about things they love. Read more about her inspiration here. 

 

 

Carrie Allen – Carnivals, Cars and Chili

We are inherently social beings.  Our lives are shaped by our ability to cooperate and coexist with those around us. The power of community is our greatest saving grace in the face of meaninglessness and destruction. I have no words for the horrific events that took place in Las Vegas this week. My heart aches for the victims and their families.  With this post, I want to focus on communities and events that bring us together. For society to renew, individuals must constantly focus on self-renewal.

Self-renewal requires you to cultivate your capacity for renewal by doing new and different things. We can too easily become complacent with our lives and settle into a rigid structure of sameness.

As we mature we progressively narrow the scope and variety of our lives. Of all the interests we might pursue, we settle on a few. Of all the people with whom we might associate, we select a small number. We become caught in a web of fixed relationships. We develop set ways of doing things.

Doing new things shakes us out of our apathy. This is why when you travel you regain an attentiveness that heightens every experience. Use your weekends to explore and engage and try new things…even if you feel like staying home.  Push yourself.  It’s worth it. In the warmer months seek out things like carnivals, antique car shows and, yes, chili cook offs.

This summer my kids pushed me to go to the En Ka Street Fair in Winchester, MA.  I was at first resistant but I am so glad we went. There was something thrilling in being one amongst the crowd, everyone just relaxing and having fun.

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Traveling carnivals are fun to explore and are a good example of temporal experiences set up to bring people together.  The Chicago World’s Fair in 1893 was the catalyst for traveling carnivals, rides, food (maybe not fried dough back then…), games of chance, thrills and more.

Every May in Sandpoint, ID there is a Lost in 50’s Car Show and Street Party.  This past May was their 32nd annual event, which is impressive in and of itself.  Krister, my love, attended and took these luscious photos. The downtown streets were lined with beautiful vintage cars, musical acts, street dances and more.

People bring their antique cars from far and wide, even Canada, to participate.  You can feel the sense of pride in sharing their restorations, which sparks many conversations.

In June, stretched out across City Beach in Sandpoint, ID with a back drop of blue skies, big mountains and boats on Lake Pend Oreille, cooks from across the region set up their tents and chili with the hope of taking home the top prizes for their recipes and a chance to compete for the World Chili Cookoff in Nevada. (Who knew there was such a thing?) The community comes together for tasty chili while enjoying the camaraderie and competition.

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I have a robust commitment to hope.  Happiness is not something we find.  It’s something we make. We need each other. Friendship and love dissolve misunderstanding, force fresh perspectives, alter judgements and break down barriers.  Explore, try new things, connect with people. Be open to loving and being loved.  Magic is something you make.

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Carrie Allen created this site as a way for people to share stories about things they love. Read more about her inspiration here. 

Carrie Allen – What’s love got to do with it?

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Tina Turner asked “What’s Love Got to Do with it?”  Well, pretty much everything.  In honor of this Valentine’s Day week, yes I made that up, I thought it important to reflect on love in our lives.  Every day – not just one day of the year.   There are many forms of love.  The deep, soul-stirring love for your soul mate, best friend and lover (which I am happily blessed with) to the profound love for your children, love for family, friends, and colleagues.  Exchanging kindness, even with strangers, is a form of love. Every person deserves love and wants to be loved and wanted.

Many people do not know the root of Valentine’s Day, some even think Hallmark made it up.  I won’t give a history lesson here but the root of it stemmed with an ancient roman pagan festival and grew into a Christian feast day, dubbed St. Valentine’s Day, in honor of a St. Valentine.  It was in the 14th century that this day became associated with love.

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Ironically it was Esther A. Howland, a female entrepreneur from Worcester, MA, who first started mass producing cards for Valentine’s Day in the 1850’s at the young age of 19.  I think that is noteworthy and pretty cool.  Prior to this handmade cards with ribbons and lace were popular.  Today I prefer handmade anything, but especially a valentine.

Putting aside the present day commercial face of Valentine’s Day, I think it serves as a reminder and opportunity to truly focus on love in its many forms. Sometimes it’s hard to show your feelings or to move past small irritations and to let your loving feelings rise up.  Try.  We all have people in our families who make it hard.  I have dreamed of sending certain family members this book:

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I challenge everyone to focus on love.  Make sure it’s genuine, heartfelt and full of meaning.  Seriously, slow down and hold your loved ones a little closer today, stop and really listen to what people are saying.  This is what life is about.  Connecting with others, feeling loved and letting others know we care.  It really isn’t about racing to your next meeting or the next big thing and thinking how great tomorrow will be.  Make each moment count and make today great.  Make an effort to love more, and as your relationships deepen, your life will expand.  Love is a selfless investment in others with great returns for yourself. I promise.

So, won’t you be my Valentine?

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Carrie Allen created this site as a way for people to share stories about things they love. Read more about her inspiration here.